Thank You Congressman Kildee.
It is the Congressional office that gets federal grants.
The Council and administration should be appaluded for good things that happen on their watch.
Lets hope that Congressman Kildee can find the funding for 100 additional police officers.
Kudos to all involved in this success to provide adequate fire protection for Flint.
The reality is Flint is unsafe and bankrupt or our city leaders are playing political brinksmanship, which we should not tolerate.
To the elected leaders of the City of Flint we have a hot summer approaching, get the economic house in order , get us more police officers or get out of the way.
Congressman Kildee you have the reputation of a leader. You have proved it once again. Thank You
http://www.mlive.com/news/flint/index.ssf/2010/04/flint_firefighters_union_its_a.html
Wednesday, April 7, 2010
Kildee Delivers Fire Fighter funding.
Sunday, April 4, 2010
Flint Divorce Lawyer comments, marraige, children, alledged affair and Bruce Sprinsteen.
Flint Divorce Lawyer Terry Bankert looks at the impact of taking the children to meet the new boyfriend or girl friends in these celebrity facts. This is a Michigan only analysis.
RICH ROUNDERS RULE.
A HOMELESS MAN WAS HEARD TO BE SINGING
Conceived in the USA, rich and entitled to loves play. Arrangement allows him to stay. Girl friend , house wife, divorcing husband now has to pay. Conceived in the USA, rich guy gets to walk away. Living in the USA. The rest of us have to pay and pay and pay.
IT DOES NOT TAKE A LOT TO BE AN AMERICAN HERO. IT TAKES MORE TO BE A GOOD HUSBAND AND MAN.
Bruce Springsteen had an affair with a 45-year-old New Jersey housewife who ran next to him at the gym, according to court papers filed as part of her divorce proceedings. Weirdly, the Post reports she looked a lot like Patti Scialfa, his band mate and wife of 18 years. [3]
AFFAIR BREAKS UP MARRIAGE.
The New York Post reported today that there is a woman alleging an affair with The Boss.[1]
The New Jersey woman, Ann Kelly, was identified in divorce papers filed by her husband. Divorce papers say that she had an affair with none other than Bruce Springsteen.[2]
A Michigan or Flint Divorce Court Motion for Custody would talk of the affair.
THE GIRL FRIEND HAD IT MADE. WAS SHE HAPPY?
Ann Kelly, 45, was a housewife living with her mortgage-broker husband and two children in a $600,000 home in a leafy New Jersey suburb.[2]
LOVE BLOOMS
She says they met at the gym and that she had an affair with him for several years.[1]
But when the married Springsteen entered her life in 2005 -- showering her with concert tickets, serenading her during rehearsals and confessing she was on his mind while he toured -- the Jersey girl got lost in a "Tunnel of Love," court records alleged.[2]
SHE SUCCEEDED IN TRYING TO IMPROVE HER POSITION.
Ann Kelly, didn’t hold down a job, instead she spent money on self improvement measures like plastic surgery and a gym membership at THE Atlantic Club where she supposedly became acquainted with the singer beginning in 2005. Papers submitted by her husband Aruthur Kelly, who's seeking the divorce, say Springsteen would stand at the end of her treadmill and told her she had the "nicest ass" in the place. [3]
IN A MICHIGAN DIVORCE WHAT IMPACT ON THE DECISION OCCURS WHEN A PARENT LETS THE KIDS MEET THE NEW BOY FRIEND OR GIRL FRIEND?
Soon the singer and his gym buddy were having lunch, and bringing her two kids along. [3]
It is “ Fault” to expose the children this way. This concept of fault can be measured in a custody decision not withstanding Michigan’s no-fault divorce statute. Feldman v Feldman, 55 Mich App 147, 222 NW2d 2 (1974); Kretzschmar v Kretzschmar, 48 Mich App 279, 210 NW2d 352 (1973).
In Michigan a statute called the best interest of the children guides child custody decisions. There are A- L factors.
Factor “f” measures the Mothers and Fathers relative moral fitness focusing on how they will function as a parent the court does not decide who is the morally superior adult. Fletcher v Fletcher, 447 Mich 871, 526 NW2d 889 (1994) (error in finding that this factor favored plaintiff; there was no evidence that defendant’s extramarital affairs had any adverse effect on her ability to raise children).
It can be said an extramarital affair is not necessarily a reliable indicator of the party’s parenting ability, in Berger v Berger, 277 Mich App 700, 747 NW2d 336 (2008), the unique nature of mothers affair, i.e., being seduced by a celebrity and then introducing his to the children. demonstrated extraordinarily poor judgment and lack of insight about the impact her conduct could have on everyone in the household, including, ultimately, the children.
HE HAS BEEN DOWN THIS PATH BEFORE
Bruce Springsteen is married to E Street Band member Patti Sciaifa. They began their relationship while he was still married to his first wife, Julianne Phillips. He left Phillips to be with Patti. Bruce Springsteen and Patti Sciaifia had their first child in 1990. They were married in 1991 and had a second child that year. Their youngest child was born in 1994.[1]
POLITICALLY THEY HAD THEIR OWN BI PARTISAN STIMULUS PLAN
A the pair got closer, the liberal leaning blue-collar icon gave Kelly, a conservative, books to read and told her he’d thought about her while on tour, the documents claim. [3]
OH, HOW SWEET IT IS
He personally delivered front-row tickets to attend rehearsals, after which Kelly told her husband’s mother "It felt like Bruce Springsteen was singing to me." All the while Aruthur Kelly was aware at least of an infatuation with the singer since, according to the papers, Springsteen was a frequent topic of conversation in chats with a marriage counselor.[3]
No comment yet from Springsteen about the affair.[2]
YOU HAVE TO PICK YOUR PRIORITIES
In 2008, the NJ woman was spotted dining with the star, while her spouse was undergoing open heart surgery in Cleveland. Allegedly the wronged husband decided to call it quits after Kelly and her famous beau were seen kissing in the fitness center’s parking lot, though she’s still has never admitted having her relationship with Springsteen was sexual. Meanwhile, a source says the Boss and his wife are chugging right along. [3]
THE GOOD LIFE GOES ON
"Bruce and Patti continue to have a terrific marriage and are very devoted to each other and their children," said a friend. [3]
Posted here by
Terry R. Bankert
A Flint MI Divorce Lawyer.
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[1]
http://www.examiner.com/x-40713-Celebrity-Relationships-Examiner~y2010m4d4-Bruce-Springsteen-joins-list-of-cheaters
[2]
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/04/04/bruce-springsteen-stole-a_n_524588.html
[3]
http://gothamist.com/2010/04/04/bruce_springsteens_alleged_affair_w.php
Saturday, April 3, 2010
Will Tia Carrere get child custody? Will her pre nuptial hold up.
Flint Divorce attorney comments on the issues of the Carrere divorce if it was filed in Michigan.
FILING FOR DIVORCE
Wayne's World star Tia Carrere has filed for divorce to end her seven-year marriage.
Grounds for divorce in Michigan.
“[T]here has been a breakdown of the marriage relationship to the extent that the objects of matrimony have been destroyed and there remains no reasonable likelihood that the marriage can be preserved.”
In Michigan divorce procedure if she had filked here Tia Carrer may not include any other explanation of the grounds in the complaint. Her Husband Simon Wakelin could then admit or deny the grounds. The court may consider an admission but is not bound by it in its final deliberation
The initial Michigan and Flint divorce documents in cases without children would be a summons, a complaint, filing fees, and a record of divorce or annulment (some counties require filing at the time of entry of the judgment).
If Carrere and Wakelin had minor children or a request for spousal support, a verified statement must be served on the other party and provided to the Friend of the Court. The initial filing for a divorce with minor children must also include information about custody proceedings and the names and birth dates of the minor children.
The Michigan and Flint Divorce petition or complaint must include the following:
The statutory grounds for divorce, without further explanation.
The parties’ complete names and their names before marriage.
Residency information.
Whether a party is pregnant.
The required case caption language .
Whether there are minor children of the parties or minor children born during the marriage.
The complete names and birth dates of any minors involved in the action, including minor children of the parties and all children born during the marriage.
Whether there is property to be divided.
If a request for protection of property is made, facts sufficient to support the relief requested.
If spousal support is requested, a showing of the need for support and the other party’s ability to pay.
If there are minors or a request for child support, whether any Michigan court has continuing jurisdiction over the minor and, if so, the court and file number.
If custody of a minor is to be determined, the following must be included in the complaint or in an attached affidavit: (1) the child’s present address, (2) places where the child has lived within the last five years, (3) names and present addresses of persons with whom the child has lived during that period, (4) whether the party has participated in other litigation concerning the custody of the child in Michigan or elsewhere, (5) whether the party knows of a proceeding that could affect the current child custody proceeding, and (6) whether the party knows of a person who is not a party to the proceedings who has physical custody of the child or claims custody or parenting time rights.
Filing fees may be waived. Fees and costs must be waived or suspended for persons receiving public assistance and indigent persons. The judge may hold a hearing to determine if the person is indigent.
LONG OR SHORT TERM MARRIAGE
In a Michigan and Flint contested Divorce , spousal support is a useful tool, especially when the attorney is representing a spouse in a long-term marraige or where there is a substantial disparity in income between the spouses. When a Flint divorce terminates a long-term marraige spousal support is used in its traditional sense as support and maintenance of a former spouse who is unable to support himself or herself at a comparable standard of living due to years of financial dependence. The longer the marraigethe older the recipient; the less able the recipient is to support himself or herself due to lack of education, job skills, or on-the-job experience; the more likely spousal support is to be awarded.
NO FAULT
The actress filed papers in Los Angeles on Friday, citing irreconcilable differences for the split. [1]
Most in Divorce have heard of no-fault divorce. The phrase no-fault divorce means it is not necessary to prove fault by a party—for example, infidelity or abuse—for a divorce to be granted. However, the court may consider fault in determining the distribution of property and in ruling on spousal support.
REPRESENT YOUR SELF
The Waynes world star 43 is acting as her own attorney.[2]
Many People in Michigan and flint Divorce represent themselves or appear in pro per.
Why:
Lack of funds to hire attorney
Distrust of attorneys
Inability to secure counsel as indigent due to lack of programs and/or
conflict where legal aid represents spouse
Stated intent to keep things “friendly” through divorce, etc.
Maximum preservation of marital assets for division (avoid attorney fees even if they can be afforded).
Failure to adequately understand pitfalls of self-representation
She wed photographer Simon Wakelin, her second husband, on New Year's Eve in 2002.
SOLE CUSTODY PHYSICAL AND LEGAL
Carrere is asking for sole custody of the couple's four-year-old daughter, Bianca. [1]
The term physical custody, as commonly used by the court, typically focuses on where the child resides. MCLA 722.26a(7)(a).
Legal custody is the authority to make important decisions regarding the welfare of the child. Wellman v. Wellman, 203 Mich App 277, 512 NW2d 68 (1994). Price v. Price, Westlaw 1609013, unreported, decided December 14, 2001
The court must make findings on this issue before deciding custody.
Statutory standard.
There is an established custodial environment if over an appreciable period of time, the child naturally looks to the custodian in that environment. The court must also consider
the age of the child,
the physical environment, and
the inclination of the custodian and the child as to the permanency of the relationship.
The court makes a factual determination regarding whether there is an established custodial environment; the court is not bound by the parties’ stipulation.
Determine burden of proof.
If there is an established custodial environment, a change of custody may be made only on clear and convincing evidence that the change is in the best interests of the child.
If no established custodial environment exists, custody may be changed on showing by a preponderance of the evidence that the custodial arrangement is in the best interests of the child.
Effect of certain facts.
Prior custody orders—mere existence does not create an established custodial environment.
Custodial parent voluntarily relinquishes custody—all factors must be examined to determine if a new custodial environment is created. Public policy encourages a parent with difficulties to temporarily relinquish custody to resolve his or her problems.
In prejudgment cases where the parties are residing together, the judge makes the determination on a preponderance of the evidence.
The best interests of the child is the standard used in custody disputes between parents, agencies, and third parties.
The court must consider each factor and make findings on the record.
The factors need not have equal weight; the court determines the weight of each factor.
Factors.
(a) The love, affection, and other emotional ties existing between the parties involved and the child. This factor focuses on the emotional bond that already exists between the parent and the child.
(b) The capacity and disposition of the parties involved to give the child love, affection, and guidance and to continue the education and raising of the child in his or her religion or creed, if any. This factor tries to project the parent’s ability to foster an emotional bond in the future, and the parent’s impact on such matters as education, guidance, and religious training.
(c) The capacity and disposition of the parties involved to provide the child with food, clothing, medical care or other remedial care recognized and permitted under the laws of this state in place of medical care, and other material needs.
(d) The length of time the child has lived in a stable, satisfactory environment, and the desirability of maintaining continuity.
(e) The permanence, as a family unit, of the existing or proposed custodial home or homes. This factor focuses solely on the permanence of the family environment, not the acceptability of the home or child care arrangements.
(f) The moral fitness of the parties involved. This factor evaluates the parties’ moral fitness only as it relates to how they will function as a parent and not as to who is the morally superior adult.
(g) The mental and physical health of the parties involved. This factor should not impair or defeat the public policy goal of integrating disabled persons into the mainstream of society.
(h) The home, school, and community record of the child.
(i) The reasonable preference of the child, if the court considers the child to be of sufficient age to express preference. The court must take the preference of the child into account if it decides that the child is old enough to express a preference. The court is not required to disclose the child’s preference. The child’s preference does not automatically outweigh other factors; it is only one element used to make the determination.
(j) The willingness and ability of each of the parties to facilitate and encourage a close and continuing parent-child relationship between the child and the other parent or the child and the parents.
(k) Domestic violence, regardless of whether the violence was directed against or witnessed by the child.
( l ) Any other factor considered by the court to be relevant to a particular child custody dispute. The court may not consider the race of a parent’s spouse in considering whether to change custody.
PRE NUPTIAL AGREEMENT
The couple have a pre nuptial agreement.[2]
In a Flint Divorce Court MCLA 557.28, MSA 26.165(8) provides that a contract that relates to property and that is made between persons in contemplation of marriage remains in full force after the marriage takes place.
The Michigan Supreme Court recognized, in the early case of Hockenberry v Donovan, 170 Mich 370, 136 NW 389 (1912), that marital agreements will be enforced if the parties to the agreement are mature and have a full understanding of the agreement and no fraud is involved. Marriage, as well as the waiver of property rights, constitutes sufficient consideration to support the contract. Id. at 380.
The leading Michigan case on marital agreements that govern the distribution of property at death is In re Estate of Benker, 416 Mich 681, 331 NW2d 193 (1982). In Benker, the court affirmed that such antenuptial agreements are generally favored by public policy. However, the court also noted that there must be a fair disclosure of assets by both parties for the agreement to be valid. The court said premarital agreements “give rise to a special duty of disclosure not required in ordinary contract relationships so that the parties will be fully informed before entering into such agreements.” Id. at 689
NOT THE FIRST TIME
The actress' first marriage to Elie Samaha also ended in divorce after seven years. She split from the producer in 2000.[1]
Posted here by
Terry R Bankert a Michigan/Flint Divorce lawyer
http://attorneybankert.com/
To Find your Michgian County Court House go to
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see
[1]
http://jam.canoe.ca/Television/2010/04/03/13453311-wenn-story.html
[2]
http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20357726,00.html?xid=rss-topheadlines